What People Think They Want?

People and What They Think They What!

I have been single for 19 years, and have been living a Godly life for the most part. My heart for the past 17 years has been toward the Lord and His will and calling for my life.

For all of these years I had thought that I needed a man at my side to full filled the call of God on my life. Well I am hear to tell that is not the case. Yes the Word of God states a man should not be alone, and etc. etc. The Word also says, “A man that finds a wife shall obtain favor and blessings of the Lord.”

It does not say anything anywhere in the Word that I have found that you oh daughter shall not full fill your call because you lack a mate…. Or you oh son, whatever the case maybe.

I say this to myself as well as anyone brave enough to know the truth, and let the truth set them free.

I have heard woman say, “If I only had my mate then I could…and if my mate would go to the gym and work out with me, then I would…sis lets be real here, if you are not doing it now, you won’t when your man comes alone. I say this also to the men out there. I have heard a man say what he was looking for in a woman, actually a few men I have heard say this…I might add, these men are in there 50’s. I want a woman that can still have children, I messed up my first time around and want to have a new family…That is so sad, these men say I need a woman that is build and can climb to the top of the Rockies… Go to every country God will send, poppy poo. Gents if you are not doing those things right now, what makes you think that a woman will drive you to do it?

Something rose up in me today when all this came forth; God never said your call is conditional if you have a mate… How about being truthful with ourselves, and say it like it is. I will be honest with you, I am in the hope of a companion to share life with, but not to full fill me, only God and His calling and purpose can do that. So this is what I say to any single gents that might read this…


I am walking out my life calling, and do not need a man to conform me to his, I believe a mate is to bring good to the relationship and well as the Lady, the bible says a man that find a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor and blessing of the Lord, I am a good thing. I do not say that in pride or arrogance. I have live a life that has shaped me in and through the Lord Jesus. All other info that needs to be found out can be by the one who ask for it. Bless you for reading this. Also I would want the same from a man, I do not want a man who wants kids, been there done that. If you want me to work out with you in a gym or anything else, you had already be doing it, if you would like me to join you on mission trips, again you better already be doing it. I would like someone the Lord would send to be a blessing in everyday life, no matter what comes, storm or sunshine…







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